Goal 1: There are people I call friends, but I am no friend to them. I don’t call. I don’t make dates. I am friendly, but I am no friend. I am a fraud. My goal is to quietly and unobtrusively contemplate laying these relationships aside. I realize that sounds like planning to think about doing something at some indeterminate time, but I haven’t figured out if I am antisocial with intermittent social needs or a social person with antisocial interests? And if your friend needs you more than you need them, what are the ethics of responsible friending?
Goal 2: I need to think about my vocation. What can I do to make a living on a day-by-day basis? What kind of work can I do that would add a measure of quality to my life? What would yield a reasonable living?
Goal 3: What is a meaningful interaction? How can I foster having these and, once I do, how do I maintain them?
Goal 4: Is it healthy to focus on the future? Is it better to be present and live in the now?
Goal 5: How can I figure out what I really want out of life and then just do it?
Goal 6: (My one hard goal) — To apply intermittent fasting at least three days a week (maybe five) and then carb refeed on weekends. Eat plenty of protein (with shakes on workout days) and weigh myself no more than twice monthly.
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